Most people like being around fun individuals. It's just human nature. People who are fun are usually quite popular among their friends, have good social lives and are rarely bored. To be one of them, is actually quite hard. But who says you have to be like them? try being yourself and start things one at a time, you have time.
Listen. Fun people don't do all the talking when it comes to conversations. Good conversations are crucial when you want to be a likable person, and sometimes you just have to be quiet and listen.
Smile and laugh. Laugh because people like people who laugh with them (not at them). This makes people happy and brightens the way they think of you.Be a happy person, not ditsy and uncaring, but optimistic.
Make eye contact. This is very important because it makes people feel like they have all of your attention, you are listening, interested in what they have to say and they are getting the attention that they deserve
Be active. In order to be fun to be with, you need to be active, to stand up, to be creative. Maybe do a "happy dance" when something good happens,
Be curious. Know what you'll be doing later. If you get turned down or rejected, move on. You never know what's going to happen until you try.
Care about yourself. In order to be a fun person, you must be confident.
Be sociable and friendly. In order to be fun to be with, you'll need to build some new relationships so people start noticing you.
Be spontaneous. Everyone likes a person who can keep things interesting. Have fun with things, be lighthearted. No one likes boredom, or to feel like nothing new ever happens.
Don't be afraid to really go out there! If you are afraid of people thinking you are weird, strange, etc., just think of the bright side. You don't need them, and hey! you're trying to meet new people anyway, so it will take your mind off the negatives.Plus who cares about what anyone else thinks. Don't let anyone label you. Be who you want to be and don't be afraid to be yourself. People hate phonies!! So go out there and rock the real you.
Know your limits, and let other people know those limits too.

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