Think you know what is cool? think again!!

Have you always wanted to be the cool guy, who always seems to do the right thing? Or are you dying to be the cool girl, If you think about all the people who you think of as cool, you'll find that they have several characteristics in common: they're all confident, unique, and on friendly terms with everyone. There's no reason you can't be like that yourself.

Act like you don't care about what others think. We will always, on some level, be concerned with others' opinions of ourselves, but realize that ultimately, you will never be able to please everyone, so why bother trying?


Be aware of how people perceive you. What you are really doing is learning how to better perceive yourself. In terms of physical appearance, beware of food getting stuck in your teeth, bad breath, body odor. Try not to stare too much (it makes people uncomfortable), stand/sit up straight (it makes you look and feel more confident), smile generously,be polite and considerate.

Find real friends . For example, if people don't hang out with you because you don't wear designer clothes, they are not real friends. If the people standing in front of you can't see you for you, then how can they be your friend?

Don't be afraid to be different, whether that means standing up for yourself, defending someone else, or taking interest in something that no one else does. The coolest people are the ones who occasionally break against the tide and make people question the status quo.

Cool people say what they mean, and mean what they say. Be confident in your word and don't let anyone try and change it. If you state your opinion and people disagree, don't worry. You said what you felt and people will respect you for that, unless you use it knowing it will offend someone.

Change your attitude--if you have a negative attitude change it. Cool people always have a positive attitude. No one likes a negative person. When people get to know you and see that you always have a positive look on things even when things are not going your way, they will enjoy your company.

• There is no textbook definition of cool. Some people may think it's cool to have drugs or drink and drive etc.
• Don't base your coolness on making others seem uncool. You'll make more enemies than friends that way. People aren't going to worship someone who bosses or beats them around all the time. They'll be scared maybe, but they won't respect you.
• Don't lose sight of yourself or your morals. Being cool isn't about changing who you are, its about being confident enough to let people see how awesome you really are.
• Being cool can be a challenge. A lot of people who aren't cool can slow your path to coolness down. So if something puts you in a bad mood, it's good to have reminders of your end goal of being awesomely cool. Also if your mood distracts you enough for you to forget your end goal reminders can help you stay positive.
• You get the coolest by staying cool the longest. Practice makes perfect.
• If you are accepting of others and include people, others will be attracted to your level of confidence of socializing and thus consider you cool to hang around with.